Monday, May 31, 2010

Succu Dry

I don't get vampire sex, but I sure as hell love CBT. Check out this kinky version of a "fleshlight," Succu Dry. It's lined with dozens of tiny fangs to poke my favorite thing to torture. I think I will put this on my wish list for something new in my toy bag!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Same Day and Daytime Appointments

In the past, my schedule did not readily allow me to have same day or make day time appointments. My new schedule and new studio spaces now allow me to accommodate such appointments. I still, however, recommend giving me advance notice so that I may plan accordingly.

So don't hesitate, let's move before I raise my rate!

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Form and Function

I've been seeing a lot of shoes and boots with multiple uses like the ones below. I like the boots that carry toys, but I'm not so sure about the butt plug heels.











You can find shoes here: Ainsley T and Atsuko Kudo

(A big thanks to Tommy O. for finding these pictures and links for me!)

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Friday, May 21, 2010

My fantasies

I spend a lot of time enjoying many other people's fantasies. I love hearing about them, creating them, watching blissed out faces finally succumb to them. Believe me, I really enjoy this! In sexy and vanilla settings, I seem to be the sounding board for people's fantasies.

But sometimes, I need to give a little thought to what my fantasies are. Here are a few snapshots:


--go to Urusawa

--become a Unicorn. I've had custom gas mask and white latex catsuit made. I love prancing about! I'm looking for the right person to create my mane and tail.

--rope suspension . . . possibly on a palm tree . . . possibly in a tropical place.

--utilize one of those hollow strap-on dildos for men. Ultimate humiliation.

--having a live-in slave. He makes all my vegan meals and keeps the place spotless. A real 1950s housewifey. When I'm not home, he's grooming my cats.

--day out with one of the girls; mani-pedis, shoe shopping, brunch and giggling!

--I would love to sub to Joan Jett


--and I am still looking for My O.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

May is National Masturbation Month


I shamelessy misquote Charlie Chaplin: "A day without orgasm, is a day wasted."

Good Vibes is sponsoring a Masturbate-a-thon on May 30th in San Francisco. I plan on staying in Los Angeles that weekend, and enjoying, among other things my first adult trip to Disneyland, but I vow to give myself a little more self-love that day for sure!

A gentleman friend just gave me a ton of vibrators so I think I will go and make some good use of them. Thank you to all my supersexyshiny friends, clients, Aurora Snow, and Kink.com for providing me with so much visual material and memories for self-pleasure. My hats off to you. And to the person who provides me with a battery recharging station and rechargeable batteries, because I am, as always, the environmentally conscious kinky pervert.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Nothing says thank you, like a thank you!

Call me old-fashioned, call me what you will, but I love when someone sends a follow-up thank you note after our session. Maybe people do not know how to write a thank you or do not know that I would really love to hear it, but it really means so much to me that I have created an experience for someone that he is thinking about the next day or days later and he takes the time to let me know.

It could be something simple, i.e. "You rocked my world."

If you wanted to write something more formal, tell me what you specifically liked about what we did, how it made you feel, perhaps something you would like to try the next time.

But, the next time I (or anyone for that matter) rocks your world, makes you cry tears of pain and joy and proves that the multiple male orgasm DOES exist, take a couple of minutes and write a thank you! It speaks volumes about character and makes future time together so much better.

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Art from the New World at Bristol City Museum

More reasons to be back in London! I came across this gallery opening and was immediately struck by this painting because it reminds me of so many parties I have been to in LA!



Los Angeles’ Corey Helford Gallery is collaborating with Bristol’s City Museum & Art Gallery to put on this show, Art from the New World. Looks naughty and artistic, just my style. It opens tonight, May 15 in Bristol. Check it out if you are in the UK. Hopefully it will come across the pond.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

The Unicorn

I had a smashing time in London and Berlin, where among other things, I attended Torture Garden. For the main night, I dressed as a white latex unicorn. I consider unicorn play the Dominant version of pony play. I remain untethered, but had a couple of Unicorn handlers to protect me from Undesirables. Here are the pictures from that night. I will be posting them as I receive them. Gas mask is by Wild Gas Masks.








(Photo by Nikki Thorn)

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Gummi in Berlin

Being the kinky intellectual I am, I wanted to check out the Erotik Museum whilst in Berlin. We walk into a sex shop akin to Hustler and are instructed to go upstairs to purchase tickets for the museum, which as we soon realize is what very few people are here to do. When upstairs, we realize there are video booths and pretty liberal rules about hooking up in them. This was actually the only place on my trip where I got totally cruised as several smoky men wandered out of their sexy booths and apparently thought my friends and I were ladies for their amusement. Oh poor diluted ungentlemen! You are only here for MY amusement.


The museum itself was okay. The first floor was pretty new with lots of video and interactive activities about sex, attraction and anatomy. There were male and female mannequins that had a "spank-o-meter" in their ass, but sadly, it was broken. I thought I could prove myself, the kink equivalent to the punching bag at Gilley's in Urban Cowboy. The other two floors contained erotic art.

Hautnah was the only latex/fetish shop we went to in Berlin. German latex (gummi) is very strange feeling. Downstairs was a very sexy place, smelling of rubber and cork--it was also a wine cellar! I think fetish and wine go well together. It must be nice to have a tasting down there. Perhaps I will have a latex & wine tasting party. This is where I learned Germans have a fetish for raincoats, rain boots and serious gas masks.

Monday, May 3, 2010

Torture Garden



Saturday

The Unicorn makes a debut! I lubed up and donned my white latex cat suit and was out the door with my supersexyshiny friends, unicorn gas mask safely in tow under my arm. When we got to the club there is a changing tent because, as it was explained to me, so many people use public transport, they do not want to ruin their outfits. That tent was a madhouse of latex, lube and glitter. I put on my gasmask and emerged fully Unicorn.

My Lady Tigress guided me through the crowds, protecting me from Undesirables as we made our way to the dance floor. The Unicorn can dance! I liked that there was a variety to the music and not just standard industrial/goth/synth, but some things that I actually knew and enjoyed. I shared a slow dance to Blue Velvet with the Tigress. The whole night was a bit of a sweaty, violet tinged blur. The Unicorn still likes jack and coke and she used an extra long straw to get up into her muzzle. At one point the Unicorn ran into a ponygirl and her handler, so Unicorn went over to make friends. The ponygirl's handler patted my muzzle as we eyed each other up and down, finally ponygirl accepted Unicorn and we nuzzled. Luckily one of my Unicorn handlers came over and said, "The Unicorn cannot be tamed!" Indeed. At one point an Undesirable began to bother us and I galliantly defended our turf, a medical table we were all lounging on, by fiercely thrusting my horn in his face. All in all, Tigress told me that everyone smiled and pointed at the Unicorn. I'm glad I could do something different that made people happy.

Bit of a madhouse, the club was huge with several large rooms and performances. I managed to catch Kumi's show were she was a crash dummy victim, and a woman suspended with loops and loops of what looked like videotape--finally someone has found a good use for that stuff. I did not see so much play happening, though Unicorn would love to come back with some white and silver floggers.

So much classier than walking out of a club and running the "Flier Gamut" was a nice purple bag full of fliers, condoms and stickers. Thank you.



Sunday

Was a bit mellower at a local club Ghost which looked like a classy delightful place I would like to go to on another night. Play area had some beautiful furniture, but a little too crowded for me to stay there long. I ran into a lovely gentleman who complimented my outfit and my blog, noting an entry from over a year ago about my trip to Jumbo's Clown Room, a local strip club.

Again it was fun dancing to mash-ups and Salt'n'Pepa. Got to spank some fine latex clad booty too! Lounging in a black leather lined alcove, I ran into a photographer. I poked him and asked where he was from since I heard an American accent, turns out he was James, a photographer from LA. How funny.

So was Torture Garden in London as cool as everyone says? Fuck yes.