Footnight, another well spent night

The night started off particularly well for me as a gentleman sauntered up and complimented my feet. Immediately recognizing me, he said, You are first on my list. I thought he was joking, but then he actually took a list out of his pocket and I was certainly first! We had a very enjoyable time as I smushed him like a bug, fitting as he named himself Bug Boy. I cannot adequately convey the elation I feel when I am engaged in a scene and my companion is smiling in ecstasy and content.

I met some very lovely other gentlemen as well, nervous first-timers and others who recognized me from other venues.

My advice to the gentlemen, please do not be shy about approaching the Beautiful Ladies, we LOVE our feet to be worshiped!

Footnight tonight!

Come worship my perfectly pedicured feet at New Years Foot Party and Model Awards.

Hope to see you downtown, my toes wriggling in your mouth as I giggle or perhaps you will be on the floor as I trample you. The possibilities are endless, especially with so many Beautiful Ladies.

BDSM Wedding

Bride and groom in bright red, the backs of their attire cut out to allow room for the suspension hooks to be placed between their shoulder blades, men in black wearing gloves and masks carefully place the hooks, a hushed tension as everything is in place, the wheel cranks, feet leave the floor, the Mistress audibly gasps, they dangle playfully for a moment, then join, holding hands and face the reverend who begins, "Dearly Beloved . . ." Welcome to LA!

I have been to a few weddings and my date and I agreed that none were as touching, and consequently, as hot as this one.

Congratulations!

Here's to all other kinky hopefuls looking for their lifelong partner!

Check out interview

One of the most delightful and talented Mistresses I know interviewed on LA Talk Radio here.

How to be a Good Wife translated for the modern D/s relationship

I found this a couple of weeks ago. Although the actual article may be a fake according to Snopes, the content is not terribly out of line with a 1950s household. As it was, it of course ruffled my feminist femdomme feathers, but then I realized I liked it a lot better when I slightly edited it to how I like a slave to treat me as his Mistress.

* Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for Her return. This is a way of letting Her know that you have be thinking about Her and are concerned about Her needs. Mistresses are hungry when They get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
* Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when She arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. She has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
* Be a little gay and a little more interesting for Her. Her boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
* Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your Mistress arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
* During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for Her to unwind by. Your Mistress will feel She has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to Her comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
* Minimize all noise. At the time of Her arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum.
* Be happy to see Her.
* Greet Her with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please Her.
* Listen to Her. You may have a dozen important things to tell Her, but the moment of Her arrival is not the time. Let Her talk first - remember, Her topics of conversation are more important than yours.
* Don't greet Her with complaints and problems.
* Don't complain if She's late for dinner or even if She stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what She might have gone through at work.
* Make Her comfortable. Have Her lean back in a comfortable chair or lie Her down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for Her.
* Arrange Her pillow and offer to take off Her shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
* Don't ask Her questions about Her actions or question Her judgment or integrity. Remember, She is the Mistress of the house and as such will always exercise Her will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question Her.

And finally:
* A good slave always knows his place.

Happy New Year!

And Happy Birthday to my blog, it is now one year old.

Looking back, I like the way it has evolved with me as I made the transition from dungeon to independence; I've been reading other important Mistress/sex worker blogs, writing reviews of movies/books/clubs and some of my own fantasies. The last year has seen me through a lot of positive changes and growth, both in my professional and personal life.

At heart I am a writer. I am published in the vanilla, hard copy world. I love that my blog can combine my two favorite things: writing and kink. In the next year, I'm going forward with renewed focus. I will be writing more about my fantasies, as I discover more about what makes me tick as I meet new people and deepen the relationship with my play partner. I will continue to write about good times in the kinky world and with my reviews.

Thank you for reading my blog and giving me feedback!

New Hope, PA

Today I hung out with a friend who paid someone else to torture him (gasp! the horror) as he finished up his tattoo. It was nice to finally put a face to a name, as he had been seeing Tony of the Lion's Den II for over a year to work on his various pieces. I read poetry in the lobby making fun of all the flash in my mind, until finally the conversation in the back brought me behind swinging doors. Politics. Economics. Revolution. Where is it? I liked Tony a lot; balls to the wall guy I can drink with and discourse. Although, I guess we got a little too passionate about the topic of conversation at the expense of the poor friend. I've never been tattooed, but I can only imagine it gets rougher when the artist is also vehemently opposed to corporate bailout co-existing with holiday bonuses and lavish parties, oh and forced foreclosure in Detroit. I am quite the sadist.

On the wall, there was a photocopy of an article from Good Housekeeping 1955 entitled "How to be a Good Wife". It ruffled my feminist feathers, but if you just replace "wife" with "slave" it pleases the Mistress--a later post to follow.

Afterward we went to Le Chateau Exotique where I got my braided flogger from last year. It was a little amusing to me to see brands like Syren and Stockroom tucked away in this tiny cottage-style of a store in a small, artsy town. This store definitely rivals Los Angeles in terms of quality and quantity of toys, media and fetish wear. There was another braided flogger I had never seen before, where the tails were flat braided rather than a round shape. Consider it on my wishlist. my friend offered good advice going into a kinky store where sensual overload is bound to occur and wanting nearly every beautiful, torturous implements: ask the staff what you can't find any where else.

Put Me on on your wishlist

I was very flattered today when danni of Pandemos told me that she put me on her wishlist.

Enjoying . . .

Eighteen year old Scotch. I think I found my new drink. I like fine things.

The Tickle Bean

Today my friend M. came over with his latest toy. He constructed an apparatus to securely strap down a willing victim's feet while she is comfortably reclined on a large bean bag chair. I admired the craftmanship while simultaneously making fun of his retro pre-teen furniture. Right now the feet are secured via handcuffs, resting on a covered memory foam pillow, but this makes for a bit of movement. Therefore I suggested making stocks instead. He is hard at work making the adjustments.

I must say, I really enjoy tickling men, especially when it is coupled with painful torture, usually CBT. I find the contrast so tantalizing.