New Years Footnight Party

Join me this Thursday night for the Los Angeles New Years Footnight Party.



I'm ticklish . . .



I love to have my feet massaged . . .



and my toes sucked . . .



I really enjoy trampling you!



What would you like to do with my feet?

Safe, sane and consensual--NOT bat shit crazy

Every once in awhile I get a request for something odd or bizarre, sometimes I can comply, sometimes I can't, but I always welcome sincere people to share their fantasies so long as they are not illegal or unethical. This letter came to me the other day and it really disturbed me:


Ms. Justine,

I am considering hiring a professional domme to perform certain acts on a man who is effectively my submissive. I don’t wish to mislead you or to waste your time, so I must tell you that I have not definitely decided whether or not to do this. Let me outline the situation as briefly as possible.

I am not into BDSM in any of its forms, although recently I have read a great deal about it. A very dear friend of mine was sexually used and abused by a self styled dominant man, sending her into a serious state of depression. I was able to meet this man, and set him up so that I have a very strong hold over him, and he must do as I say. He has, really, no choice. I have locked him in a male chastity device which he finds both frustrating and humiliating. I intend to keep him in it for some time. It is the absolutely perfect, fitting punishment for his misdeeds. However, in spite of my best efforts, I have not been adept at apply theory to practice, and acting as a domme to give him the treatment he really deserves.

So, I am considering hiring a professional dominant to truly and deeply humiliate him and assist in the destruction of his masculinity. You are among those I am considering.

What I would like you (or someone) to do, is to pretend to be a friend of mine, and use and abuse him in much the way he did my friend. It appears to me that a great deal of what pro-dommes do is acting anyway, so this should not be difficult.

I have the following questions for you. First, would you be willing to put on such an act? Would it be a problem for you to do what you do with me present? I would like to observe, if you don’t mind. Can I rely upon you to maintain discretion and to protect my privacy – which is very important to me? Would you be willing to accept instructions from me, in advance, as to what you would and would not do?

I note that you do not do outcalls, so it would appear that I need to bring him to you. Do you have a facility that appears not to be a commercial BDSM setting? I don't want him to know that you are a professional. I want him to believe that you are a friend of mine with dominant tendencies.

I would also like to take advantage of your knowledge. This is not about hurting him – I could do that. It is about demeaning, degrading and humiliating him, and if possible, damaging or destroying his sexual identity and self image. Is there a way, other than keeping him in the chastity device, to make him unable to get it up with a woman, long term? At the very least, I want him to suffer shame and embarrassment and put him off sex as much as is possible. I want him to see himself as a sexual victim, rather than a predator.

Please let me know if you are interested and willing, and what suggestions you may have. Also, can you tell me what you would charge? If this proved to be effective, it might result in repeated use of your services.

Thank you for your time and thought.

"Miss X" (named changed to protect the stupid)




I have several questions for Miss X, first of all, are you even real?

You are not into BDSM in any of it's forms but you just met this guy and you have him locked in chastity? What do you mean by "sexually used and abused"? Do you mean he didn't make the after sex phone call or he raped her? While Dommes certainly role play, I do not have to "act" like I am abusing, using or even enjoying myself. I actually am! Also, why are you spending so much time trying to harm this man for his alleged acts rather than comfort your friend? Why would I let you watch me do something that you admitted you can't do yourself?

I really do not understand what exactly this person is after. I can't tell if she really is bat shit crazy or this is some weird attempt to watch me in action. Either way, safety clown says no.

This is not safe--I'm supposed to meet you where? with two people? one of whom doesn't know what is about to happen? This is not sane--this is ridiculous, although it could be really hot for a role play idea if I had a man who sexually abused a girl and then I revenged her by turning the tables on him. This is not consensual--I do not play with people who do not agree to play with me. In conclusion, this is bat shit crazy and I just don't play that way.

Happy New Year!

My blog is now two years old!

Some highlights of the past year:

*Tommy O.

*Caribbean Fetish Fest at Hedonism II in Jamaica with a slew of sexy people.

*Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009

*Fixe Magazine Interview

*$pread magazine "Double Take" article

*New Orleans with Mistress Erin, Ryan St. Germain and Don Corbitt.

*Footnight

*My panties raising money for breast cancer

and would I be a total tool if I said it warmed the cockles of my heart when Larry Morgan of the Sound mentioned my name on the radio and played me some Bruce?

Also, I have made some very special new friendships with people this year, beyond those I have mentioned who have helped me in some way, but are just plain awesome. They have been huge highlights of 2009.

What do I want to do in the next year? More! While my talents are many, I particularly excel at two things: BDSM and writing. I need to do more that incorporates these two talents. I want to become a more seriously recognized blogger, but also I really want to submit erotica for anthologies, etc. There are a couple other ideas that I have regarding this that will be revealed in due time, but basically, I want to go national, international, galactic. I'm too big for this planet.

For now you can continue to enjoy me on this corner of the internet, but soon I hope to be peeking out at you from so many other places.

Updated Blogroll

During this time away from Los Angeles, I have been trying to take some time for myself away from the fun and sexy distractions and catch up on some reading. Beyond my usual favorites of poetry and literature, I decided to take a look at my blogroll, which has undergone very little change since I first created it about a year ago. I have so many books piled up around my bed, sexy and otherwise and now I have a roll of sexy blogs to catch up on too! I'm happy to say I can call Jenny DeMilo, Mistress Erin, and Ryan St. Germain my friends.

Completely new to my list are: aag, Longing's End, Sugarbutch Chronicles, Coquitten and Walking Vixen.

I even included some naughty boys: dirty boy and Natt Nightly.

All the people on my list actively update their blogs with content that will make you wet and make you think, something I try to do with my blog.

Nine

I can't decide if this movie is great or cheesy, but I'm not here to give you a feminist or intellectual reading of this movie. I'm here to tell you about the reason I saw this movie, which is why you should see it, the women! Featuring some of the sexiest and most beautiful women of this generation, and if you like the older dames, it has those too. Every scene is full of great bones, eyes, lips and legs. The movie drips with legs almost as good as mine, covered in fishnets and thigh highs, ending with stiletto shoes and over the knee black leather boots.

Even if I were to review this movie seriously, I'm not sure what else I would say about it, other than to bring me back to those dozens of legs.

Interview with Fixe Magazine

Check out my interview here.

Smells like a Dungeon

I'm not much into perfumes. I never understood the appeal of Chanel No. 5; a woman's own personal scent is so much sexier. However, I have always loved the single note and somewhat odd colognes of Demeter Fragrance.

I couldn't help but notice that some of their fragrances had a bit of a BDSM feel to them, namely Leather, Riding Crop, Rubber, and Vinyl.

If I were to make a fragrance called Dungeon, it would have some of these elements: Leather, incense, sweat, pleasure, a scream, a little blood . . . my laughter. Would you wear it?

Wishlist

I have updated my wishlist for those inquiring about gifts this holiday. My birthday is coming up in the beginning of February as well. A girl can never have too many books or stockings! I'm still going through a pile of books that a dear gentleman gave me. If you could only have heard me squeal when I opened that box. I'm honored that I am still on danni's wishlist, the webslave of Pandemos. But am I on yours?

Something not on my wishlist is this ridiculous corset I found on Agent Provacateur. I normally love their refined taste and high quality products, but this looks like the BDSM version of the Victoria's Secret fantasy $3M diamond bra.

Yes, those are metal spikes. And studs. What the hell? I like leather and latex corsets, maybe even satin, all with good boning, but leave the Bedazzler out of it!

Season's Beatings in New York

New York travel dates confirmed: 12/24-1/2.

Even though I lived in New York for years, I never played there! Pity, I know. So you should take this opportunity to play with me now!

I expect to be pretty busy but I hope to make a few new friends while I'm in town.

Book of Revelation movie review

Three masked women drug a lead male dancer and have their way with him for a few weeks. When they finally dump his sorry ass, he whimpers like a little bitch.

Needless to say, I loved this mainstream Femdomme flick.

But what kills me about it, is that when this bloke goes back to his life, he can't explain what happened to him. His live-in dancer girlfriend thinks he went on some fling. He tries to tell the cops what happened: "A friend of mine was abducted by three women." They all start laughing, "Poor bastard."

The women wear these sexy custom black masks with optional mouth pieces with robes to disguise their identities. They keep him chained up. One woman deeply scratches him down his back, leaving four bloody trails. They make him piss himself. They make him masturbate; when he refuses, they put his ankle in his vise and threaten to break it. When he pisses them off, the leader comes to him in the middle of the night: "Sorry to wake you" and out comes the olive oil and a large purple dildo. They make him dance for them.

When asked why, one masked woman simply says, "Because you're beautiful."

I laugh hysterically.