Indecent Proposal

$pread had a column called "Indecent Proposals" asking for the strangest thing someone ever asked you to do on the job. I never got a chance to send mine in, so here ya go!

I interview a gentleman and he wants to do some pretty light BDSM, like tickling and spanking. We enter the studio and I take over pretty quickly, slapping his ass with a leather crop, making him hump the spanking horse, etc. Then he starts talking dirty, "I want you to piss in my mouth. Would you piss in my mouth? I really want that." Oh yeah sure, I think, I'm just going to give that away. He goes on, "Actually I really want you to shit on me. Can you do that?" The clincher came when he said, "I really want you to freeze your shit and fuck me with it up the ass."

I don't think the sexy strap-on elves have crafted a harness for you yet.

At the end of the session, he offered me a discount at his medical spa. To this day, I have to say all the strangest requests I get are from doctors. I take great delight in telling my friends whose parents' are doctors how kinky they must be. :)

$pread's dead, baby

I was always impressed with $pread magazine, not only for what it sought to do by sharing information about sex workers to other sex workers, but also that it was a volunteer run non-profit. I even got a feature in it, as photographed by Jenny Demilo of Dulce de Ojo.





From the site:

$pread is a quarterly magazine by and for sex workers and those who support their rights. We are current and former strippers, escorts, pro-dommes, phone sex and fetish workers, and porn stars of all genders. The magazine has a focus on personal experiences and political insights, and contains practical information like news, features, health columns, and resources related to the sex industry. $pread builds community in the sex trade by featuring the honest and diverse perspectives of those who know it best: the women and men, including transgender persons, who work within this sensationalized, highly stereotyped industry.

Unfortunately, it has become impossible for this great magazine to continue. Only one more issue is going to come out. I strongly recommend buying up old issues as I did, as I found them insightful and a pleasure to read. I really admire $pread's message and accomplishments in the all too short time of its publishing run. Especially the one I'm in here.

Other merchandise is also available, I could always use a pretty girl on my chest. Buy me this t-shirt!

Happy New Year!

My blog is now two years old!

Some highlights of the past year:

*Tommy O.

*Caribbean Fetish Fest at Hedonism II in Jamaica with a slew of sexy people.

*Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009

*Fixe Magazine Interview

*$pread magazine "Double Take" article

*New Orleans with Mistress Erin, Ryan St. Germain and Don Corbitt.

*Footnight

*My panties raising money for breast cancer

and would I be a total tool if I said it warmed the cockles of my heart when Larry Morgan of the Sound mentioned my name on the radio and played me some Bruce?

Also, I have made some very special new friendships with people this year, beyond those I have mentioned who have helped me in some way, but are just plain awesome. They have been huge highlights of 2009.

What do I want to do in the next year? More! While my talents are many, I particularly excel at two things: BDSM and writing. I need to do more that incorporates these two talents. I want to become a more seriously recognized blogger, but also I really want to submit erotica for anthologies, etc. There are a couple other ideas that I have regarding this that will be revealed in due time, but basically, I want to go national, international, galactic. I'm too big for this planet.

For now you can continue to enjoy me on this corner of the internet, but soon I hope to be peeking out at you from so many other places.

Double Take in $pread

Corset or jeans, I look fiercely beautiful in both! Check me out in print: the Summer 2009 issue of $pread's feature, Double Take. I answer a few questions about my style in the dungeon and on the street. Photos are by the lovely Jenny DeMilo.

$pread is a much needed magazine "illuminating the sex industry." Also, in this issue are interviews with alt-porn performers, articles on D.C. activists fighting prostitution-free zones, stripper tarot and reviews on strap-ons. Informative, sexy and awesome--go get a copy now.